Changing Your Beliefs While Married
"Modern Wedding Vows" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward
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Do you want to know the biggest reason people want to talk with me one-on-one? (Yes, I'm a coach!
I'll tell you: one is or both are deconstructing their beliefs and it's affecting their marriage.
I know all about it. Lisa and I got married when she was 19 and I was 21. We met in Bible College. We were on the same page spiritually for decades. Then, deconstruction set in and everything changed. Our compatible beliefs was one of the top ingredients in the glue that kept us together. When we ran out of that, we had to figure out, and fast, what would truly keep us together.
We discovered it is love. True love. Love that respects and honors the other person in all their singular uniqueness.
Now, our relationship is better than it has ever been. We've been together for almost 40 years! We're actually thankful we went through that crisis in our relationship because it forced us to tap into a deeper love. And deeper's better!
If you know what I'm writing about and you want to save your marriage, email me
and let's talk about me coaching you through it.
Or, if you want a community to support you through your transition, The Lasting Supper
is the perfect online place to find it.