If You Think You're Trapped You Are
"If You Think You're Trapped You Are" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward
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(This is along section taken from my post in my Money is Spiritual
I want to share with you something that happened to me that blew my mind open when it came to the structure of reality.
I used to be a Presbyterian minister. I was a country pastor for five years following my ordination. I was then invited to plant a church in another province. I took up the challenge with great hopes that I would finally be able to build the kind of church I envisioned from scratch. Within two years it had fallen into the same, boring, soul-killing rut I thought I had escaped from.
The sadness I felt one night was beyond compare. I felt completely hopeless and full of despair. I could not see my way out or forward. We tucked our young children into bed. When Lisa and I finally went to bed later, my head was enveloped in an thick darkness that I couldn‚Äôt see through. I was at the end of my rope with not even enough left to hang myself. I was totally trapped. The worst feeling in the world. I fell asleep.
Then, I had a dream. In the dream, I heard the words, ‚ÄúIt‚Äôs time!‚Äù That was it. When I woke up, around 6am, I started laughing. Out loud! I was laughing because, somehow, the dream had punctured my illusion of being trapped. I realized I wasn‚Äôt trapped at all. I was free! It dawned on me, in a flash, that I only felt trapped because I was afraid of acting free. I was afraid of the consequences of acting on the freedom that was already mine. The consequences were not having a job, losing my income, and figuring out how to take care of my family. It was daunting, yes, but it wasn‚Äôt impossible. The dream made me realize that I was free, free, free!
I was laughing so hard that I woke up Lisa. I was laughing so hard that I woke up the kids. All three came running in and jumped on the bed and all five of us were laughing together. They didn‚Äôt know why they were laughing. They were just laughing with me. It took me a while to find the breath to explain to Lisa what happened. ‚ÄúHoney! I‚Äôm free. We‚Äôre free! We can do whatever we want!‚Äù
The joy was measureless!
Within two weeks I had resigned, we sold almost all our possessions, packed the rest in our minivan, and drove into the sunset. We embarked on one of the most exciting and adventurous periods of our lives. We will never forget it.
The huge lesson I learned?: If I think I‚Äôm trapped, I am.
I saw, and experientially felt, a significant spiritual truth: my mind shapes my reality.
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