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abuse, belief, church, sheep, theology -

What if wolves really think they're doing good? What if they actually think they're sheep? The other day I posted a cartoon of an LGBTQ sheep in the presence of wolves. One wolf says, "I can't believe it, but they just gave this one to us!" As usual, people who believe being LGBTQ is a sin came on to preach their relentless discrimination while trying to sound nice about it. One of my followers on Instagram responded to them by pointing out that even though they think they are being helpful, they are actually being hateful. They are, in fact, those wolves! What if wolves...

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belief, feminism, relationships -

I hope you have a happy Sunday.

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church, lgbt, sheep -

I wonder how different life would be for my LGBTQ friends if they could count on the church to accept, include, befriend, support, and advocate for them. Don't you? (This cartoon... the original and prints... is available in my shop!)

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belief, church, deconstruction -

Those who assume authority over us and those who hold our community memberships can be tricky with their language. Yes, you’re allowed to ask questions. As long as they are the prescribed ones.Yes, you’re allowed to search. As long as you find what we planted.Yes, you’re allowed to find yourself. As long as you become a person we can accept. The danger with questions, searching, and finding ourselves…is that we cannot predict how things will turn out. We cannot anticipate the answer.We cannot determine what we find.We cannot stipulate what we become. I’ve counseled a ton of people who want...

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feminism, relationships -

I read a post by a Christian sex therapist who noted that there was tons of literature out there advising wives on how to be sexy for their husbands, including being physically attractive, but that there was hardly any similar advice out there for the men. The burden of responsibility for keeping sex alive in the marriage was on the women and it was mostly to do with physical attractiveness and availability.  Also, have you noticed that most marriage books lay the responsibility on women to keep the marriage healthy and permanent? Yes, men are challenged to step up, but...

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